J,
I'm afraid you are living in a dreamworld regarding a gym as you describe. Now that doesn't mean there aren't any like that in the area. They're just gonna be hard to find.
If you are 100% serious, the best place I know of is in Kokomo. The Powerhouse Gym there is owned by Chad Coy (I know Chad from Purdue). If you don't know of Chad, he, Brian Schoonveld (American Strongman Champ and World's Strongest Man Finalist), and Brian Neese (American Strongman Champ 1999 and one gigantic MoFo) all train together up their at Chad's place.
Now Brian lives in Brownsburg so he may be the guy to contact about something hardcore here in town. I have it on the QT that he may be putting together something serious (not sure if it's a "gym" or "studio"). His company that makes strongman products (Stones, logs, etc.) was recently purchased by PowerLift but I think his website
www.mastiffstrength.com is still up. You may also be able to get to him through
www.samson-power.com. They seem to know everyone in the strength biz.
Most other places are chains...Gold's E. 82nd, World's in Carmel (not my favorite..old equipment), Lifetime (too commercial and clean), Advantage Fitness (Fishers...very muscle head oriented [bodybuilders]but still selling to the typical fitness buff)
Gotta grab a quick patient. More later.
Bill Hartman
P.S. J,what side of town are you on?