Hi Samaral
Welcome aboard. I would suggest that you look to some kind of strength/weight training program. Since you aere unemployed now, I would have a look at the
FAQs for free programs. HGM is good for someone who does not have a lot of equipment. If you have no access to equipment you could look for bodyweight exercises (there are two I think in the FAQs for programs)
Lookto what you eat first- a calorie is a calorie but some cals (like protien) will fill you up more so they may be "better" in helping you get to your goal of weight loss than an "empty calorie" full of crap (say a twinkie- with low saiety. )
I am not big on counting but prefer to cut bad stuff and let the rest take care of itself. From where you are starting, anything would be a good start. Knock off the night snakc ( all snacks if possible). A real killer is drinks- knock off soft drinks and juices - if you didn't squeeze - don't drink it. Basically drink water tea and black coffee. You will be amazed what a difference that will make.
AS FOR EXERCISE, without knowing more about you - I would say start slow- (better to make slow initial progress that to hurt yourself and be off exercising for 6 months) .
Have a look at some of the programs, out line your goals and equipment and a realistic time commitment and you will find that there are a lot of nice people here who will who can help.
Good luck and welcome