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Old 11-28-2005, 07:24 AM   #1 (permalink)
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Mahler’s Monday Morning Motivator # 92 – Black Friday

Good morning, guys.

For the guys from the states, I hope you all had a calm and relaxing Thanksgiving holiday.

Over the weekend the buzz words in the retail industry were “Black Friday.” This is the day that traditionally is the busiest shopping day of the year. That is not necessarily true, but the name evolved from retailers who operated at a deficit or “in the red” most of the year and started to realize a profit and operate “in the black” due to heavy sales on the day after Thanksgiving.

Our lives and our fitness goals often operate on the “Black Friday” principal. With all the best intentions we start a project or a program. Soon, however, we find that we are operating “in the red.” We postpone workouts, miss a few altogether and sometimes just plain quit. Perhaps we fail to make the gains we expected and lose interest. Or maybe we fall off the wagon with our diet and nutrition. This is my personal problem, especially around the holidays. All of this is done with the idea that we can turn it around and catch up later in the year. We begin operating at a deficit, telling ourselves that tomorrow we will get back on track. Tomorrow will be our Black Friday and we will start to make progress again.

It is so easy to lose focus; so easy to lose sight of our goals when we have lives that are complex beyond even our own understanding. There are demands from all sides on our time, our resources and our willpower and never more than around this time of year. These cause us to function a day at a time, just to get by; just to make it through to the next day. No one is immune to this virus that penetrates the defenses of our mind and spirit. But, getting along a day at a time causes us to function at a deficit because it only focuses on the next day and not the ultimate goal. In putting off things, we are actually depleting our resources and operating “in the red.”

It takes real effort to keep this from happening and it isn’t an easy task. The payoff in tackling the long term goal and continuing to operate “in the black”, however, is that it makes the day-to-day stuff easier to handle. The big stride for the long-term goal helps you to take the little steps from one day to the next without breaking a sweat. It takes commitment and focus, but is worth the effort. You must make your own Black Friday and stop living your life at a deficit.

So, when is Black Friday?
How about, today?
And everyday.

Have a great week.
= = = = = = = = = =

In Fitness & Friendship,
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Old 11-28-2005, 07:27 AM   #2 (permalink)
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So if I'm one of the first 100 people to the gym I'll gain an extra pound of muscle or lose an extra pound of fat for free?
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Old 11-28-2005, 07:29 AM   #3 (permalink)
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Staying in the black is especially hard this time of the year. It requires focus and dicipline not to let the extra distractions completely derail the progress made up to this point.

Another real winner, John.
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Old 11-28-2005, 07:51 AM   #4 (permalink)
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Thanks John...I really needed that today [img]smile.gif[/img]
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Old 11-28-2005, 07:55 AM   #5 (permalink)
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Excellent MMMM again John. Thank you! It's like you're reading my mind.
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Old 11-28-2005, 08:10 AM   #6 (permalink)
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Fitness Black Friday - January 2nd! JP's busy season will be starting after Christmas!
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Old 11-28-2005, 08:16 AM   #7 (permalink)
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Nice one, Mahler.

EC: You don't get a discount, you get more crowds at the gym. My gym has been a zoo lately, the staff are going nuts trying to help everyone out. [dear Y staff, keep the newbies in the machine area please!]
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Old 11-28-2005, 08:38 AM   #8 (permalink)
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That's true castufari. Although my gym was pleasantly empty on Friday morning after Thanksgiving [img]smile.gif[/img]
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Old 11-28-2005, 09:10 AM   #9 (permalink)
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Great post Mahler, and great timing, too. I can't count the number of times I've fallen victim to thinking a day at a time.

Thank you.
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Old 11-28-2005, 11:29 AM   #10 (permalink)
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MAHLER.. I've put "commitment and focus" in my signature.. to remind myself that I do believe in those things. thanks
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Old 11-28-2005, 02:59 PM   #11 (permalink)
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Mahler - thank you. Perfect timing. I think it's about time someone dug up the Bob post from T-Nation for the holidays as well!
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Old 11-28-2005, 03:03 PM   #12 (permalink)
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As always, a great post Mr. Mahler. [img]smile.gif[/img]
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Old 11-28-2005, 03:16 PM   #13 (permalink)
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Quote:
Originally posted by TrainingGirl:
Thanks John...I really needed that today [img]smile.gif[/img]
I second that.
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Old 11-28-2005, 07:33 PM   #14 (permalink)
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Quote:
Originally posted by CtA318:
quote:
Originally posted by TrainingGirl:
Thanks John...I really needed that today [img]smile.gif[/img]
I second that. [/quote]Ditto!!

This is an incredibly tough time of year for eating right. Thanks for giving us an image to keep in mind!
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Old 11-28-2005, 08:04 PM   #15 (permalink)
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Good reading, Mahler. I admit that most of my motivation comes from this website since I don't have a gym buddy or someone to share these things with. Thanks for the much needed boost.
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Old 11-29-2005, 09:21 PM   #16 (permalink)
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Another good motivator John. Thanks again!

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Old 11-30-2005, 08:02 AM   #17 (permalink)
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Man, what a way to start a new week and get back on track with my regimen. Thanks for the uplifting words, John!
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Is that some type of pun, Jamie? [img]tongue.gif[/img]
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