im never nervous when im not near her...like i could be thinkin about her and my nerves r fine...its when im at football games wit her...or at the movies....i dont know why though...i guess i just dont want to do something wrong.
Bulldog, I know what you mean. I think we all (guys and girls) worry that we're going to "do something wrong" around the opposite sex.
You just have to come to the conclusion that being yourself is what attracted her to you in the first place, and that, if she's any kind of decent person, she won't permanently hold any silly mistakes against you!
You just have to come to the conclusion that being yourself is what attracted her to you in the first place, and that, if she's any kind of decent person, she won't permanently hold any silly mistakes against you!
No. You just have to accept that you're a slave to your T-levels and the only question that need concern you is 'will I get laid tonight or not?"
Girls make you nervous because they're strange. They're not like normal people. The sooner you accept they're weird and adjust your thinking accordingly the better off you'll be .
Just try to act like shes a normal person, but be on the lookout for signs of wackiness, then find an excuse to go to the bathroom or something.
Originally posted by BjsAust: Girls make you nervous because they're strange. They're not like normal people. The sooner you accept they're weird and adjust your thinking accordingly the better off you'll be .
Agreed.
You like most guys when they get around girls get nervious. I bet right before you see her you get a huge knot in your stomach, right? It's normal. Don't worry about it, like the guys said before it's you being you that attracted her in the first place. Don't worry about it, it's 6.5 months, you're doing fine.
I love women, they're great! But they just dont think the same ways we do. At that point you can either try to work them out, or find an excuse to leave the room. Leaving the room is much easier!
Women & girls are just different. Very confusing and try to make things hard, but hell that's part of the game and us guys play it too. It's just you girls that don't think the same as each other so it take a little time to figure each one out individually.
Guys are simple: 'will I get laid tonight or not?'
Women & girls are just different. Very confusing and try to make things hard, but hell that's part of the game and us guys play it too. It's just you girls that don't think the same as each other so it take a little time to figure each one out individually.
Guys are simple: 'will I get laid tonight or not?'
I dunno man. You really think guys are that simple? I don't think you're being honest with yourself!
Look at bulldogs question. He's clearly thinking about more than just getting laid. He likes this girl, and he doesn't want to mess anything up. I'm sure he wants to get laid, but you make it sound like we don't have feelings. If anything, I think guys are more emotional about relationships than women and not confident enough to admit that.
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.........."the only question that need concern you is 'will I get laid tonight or not?"
AND that is normal how?
Girls aren't weird becka... most guys are just too stupid to understand them [img]smile.gif[/img]
and "will i get laid tonight or not" is not our only concern, well, its not most decent guys' only concern anyways.
Don't get me wrong, its on my mind, but its not all i care about. [/quote]Nope Tony is right its girls that aren't normal. I don't blame them though since its the whole gender.
Is it any wonder why I don't have a girlfriend?
Danny
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not really man... this is the "off topic" forum. what kind of discussion did you really expect over here?
Have you been over to the training forum? It doesn't even compare to MH, on any level. That's actually a pretty offensive statement, in my opinion. [img]smile.gif[/img]
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i'm well aware that the "off topic" forum is all about. its just that wednesday we had a sore nipple topic and thursday we had a dating question. i just don't see it being too much longer before someone asks "will masterbating before doing a Good Morning effect my performance, or does it just make for a good morning?"
no offense intented to Doug because this is the place for such a topic...just an observation on the changes occuring as a result of the dramatic increase of new members.
The parallels between here and MH are becoming more obvious. I guess that's going to happen as this board becomes more popular.
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