OMG what the hell is this guy thinking.. serioulsy sick puppy.. and i thought my ex was a total ass... atleast he never presented me with something like that!!! I hope they lock him away for a good long time!!
Seriously what the hell was she thinking carrying on getting married?I would have laughed and run a mile the guy has a swerious screw loose.
Does he use a set square on the hair issue??? I have always wondered what they were actualy for as the only time I have ever used them wa sin geometry at school and never since!
you know whats scarey is there are lots of them out there.. and sometimes they pull this shit after the fact as in after your married or living together and have moved away form family and friends. Its sick and it happens more often than you think..
I try to imagine this morom writing the contract in front of a his computer and I'm thinking "Does he honestly thinks that his wife will not dump his sorry ass?". It also says that he is involved with child porn. I wonder what they will require from him in his cell. [img]/images/graemlins/smile.gif[/img]
This is so sick.. but I'm thinking of all the people who demande things even 1/2 or 1/4 as bad.. and in more subtle ways and make life hell for thier spouses.. I sure hope they get out of such relationships.
I think the main problem of that contract is the title.. the last sentence in the "Misbehavior and Non compliant" section says it all:
"This will continue every night until you are ready to be compliance, at which time you will need to apologize and explain how you are ready to be my sex slave again."
The title should be "Contract of Sex Slavery Expectations"
Definately NOT MY BAG! but calling it "Wifely Expectations" makes it even weirder!
Maybe she was trying to get away from him.. the article says :
"And then there's Travis Frey, a 33-year-old Iowa man who is facing charges that he tried to kidnap his own wife (not to mention a separate child pornography rap). "
Well, MK, what the article never does say is how long she stayed with him AFTER he presented her with the contract. However, it does specifically say that she "never signed it and later provided it to police" which does imply some time had passed. Then again, the document was dated 9/5/05 and this story did make news on 2/17/06. Apparently, some time has passed. It would be interesting to see a timeline, though.
Maybe.. but if we knew that timeline.. could we judge her? (I'm not saying that someone wants to judge her.. just that a timeline isn't always helpful ) With a husband like that.. she may well have been under his control in alot of ways.
"any self-respecting woman" he may have taken her self-respect away slowly.. destroying it. If at all she got out of it, and doesn't want to go back.. EXCELLENT.. the present and the futur are what is most important.
Fear is a powerful tool, as is beating someone down emtionally.. Don't be so quick to judge her. You have never been there.. You have never been afraid of what would happen to you if you didn't go along with the person you lived with. Sometimes escape is much harder than you think!! So think about that first..
Marykaa we posted at the same time.. thank you atleast someone else is thinking along the same lines.. Its a hard position to try to put yourself in so plz don't judge her. You have no idea what she has been thru.