While I haven't read either book, nor have I particpated in the Ride for the Roses, I do want to suggest using the resources that the American Cancer Society has available. I'm sure that all communities that have a local society do an annual event called Relay For Life. It's an all night event (6pm-6am) where volunteers get pledges to walk a certain distance. While I couldn't yet bring myself to volunteer this year for our local event, I did go to the park where it was held and supported our team from work. I also bought a couple of luminaries and several snacks!!

The camaraderie and the sense of community is almost overwhelming, especially when they stop the walk at 11:00 pm to light the luminaries and read the names of the persons who've either succumbed or survived cancer. That single event brought me SO much closer to completing my emotional journey.