Advice on "working in"
I'm not new to the gym, but new to lifting heavy - today I'm on 2A3 in NROLW. At my gym, there is a separate free weight room that is populated mostly by men. I've gotten over my self-consciousness about going in there and am able to go about my training without worrying about what others are thinking, etc.
My first experience with working in occurred last week - a guy I see there all the time started doing pull-ups at the squat rack while I was resting after doing the squat presses. I was thinking, "Oh this is cool, it's like I've been accepted in here." He even helped me unrack the plates when I was done, which I saw as a "you're one of the guys" kind of gesture.
Up until that point, if someone was using the squat rack (we only have one), I would go do other stuff until they were done. I always thought working in was something that only w/o buddies did, but I've been reading some of the posts here and see that it is a common practice. So my question is, how do you go about working in with someone when you have to change the weight plates? There's a guy that squats probably 300 lbs that trains at the same time I do and rests for a while after each set - I could certainly do my set while he's resting, but I'm not sure of the etiquette - should I just wait until he's done? Would I ask him to help me remove the plates? I could take off most of them, but not all and he is trying to rest...
I guess I could just ask him, but first I just want to know if I'm breaking any unwritten rules by even thinking I could work in with someone whose seriously training (not gabbing on a phone between sets, etc.) Thanks!
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