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Old 06-18-2005, 02:40 PM   #1 (permalink)
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FYI... I got this in an email.


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1. Women are just as likely as men to engage in partner aggression.

* Psychologist John Archer reviewed hundreds of studies and concluded, “Women were slightly more likely than men to use one or more act of physical aggression and to use such acts more frequently.” [Source: John Archer: Sex differences in aggression between heterosexual partners: A meta-analytic review. Psychological Bulletin, Vol. 126, No. 5, pages 651-680]
* Law professor Linda Kelly noted, "leading sociologists have repeatedly found that men and women commit violence at similar rates." [Source: Linda Kelly: Disabusing the definition of domestic abuse. Florida State University Law Review, Vol. 30, pages 791-855, 2003. Accessible at: www.law.fsu.edu/journals/lawre view/downloads/304/kelly.pdf]
* An international survey of violence between dating partners in 16 countries concluded: “Perhaps the most important similarity is the high rate of assault perpetrated by both male and female students in all the countries.” [Source: Murray Straus: Prevalence of violence against dating partners by male and female university students worldwide. Violence Against Women, Vol. 10, No. 7, 2001]
* Summaries of the actual studies can be seen at the following site: www.csulb.edu/~mfiebert/assaul t.htm


2. Men experience over one-third of DV-related injuries.

* Of all persons who suffer an injury from partner aggression, 38% are male. [Source: John Archer: Sex differences in aggression between heterosexual partners: A meta-analytic review. Psychological Bulletin, Vol. 126, No. 5, pages 651-680]
* Of all persons who require medical treatment as the result of partner aggression, 35% are male. [Source: John Archer: Sex differences in aggression between heterosexual partners: A meta-analytic review. Psychological Bulletin, Vol. 126, No. 5, Table 5]
* Men who are victims of severe domestic violence suffer other problems, as well [Source: Richard J. Gelles: Intimate Violence in Families, 1997]:
o 30% experienced depression
o 14% required bed rest to recuperate from the injuries
o 10% needed to take time off from work


3. Men are far less likely to report DV incidents than women.

* According to the National Family Violence Survey, female victims of DV are nine times more likely to call the police than male DV victims. These are the percentages of victims who called the police in response to the assault:
o Women: 8.5%
o Men: 0.9%

[Source: JE Stets and MA Straus: Gender differences in reporting marital violence and its medical and psychological consequences. In Straus and Gelles (editors): Physical violence in American families, 1990, Table 15.]


4. The myths about domestic violence are numerous.

These are some of the common myths about domestic violence:

* According to the FBI, a woman is beaten every 15 seconds
* 4,000 women each year are killed by their husbands, ex-husbands, or boyfriends
* There are nearly three times as many animal shelters in the United states as there are shelters for women
* Battering during pregnancy is the leading cause of birth defects and infant mortality
* Women who kill their batterers receive longer prison sentences than men who kill their partners

Richard Gelles, an internationally-recognized expert on domestic violence, refers to many of these claims as “factoids from nowhere.” [http://www.mincava.umn.edu/documents.../factoid.html]


5. Many of these myths are based on DV studies that use biased survey methods.

* Some studies survey women but not men. Predictably, these studies yield one-sided findings.
* The DOJ National Crime Victimization Survey is flawed because persons do not consider most forms of domestic violence, such as slapping, shoving, or throwing an object at a partner, to be a crime.
* The DOJ National Violence Against Women survey prefaces the questions by repeatedly using the phrase “personal safety.” Those words bias the responses because women are more concerned about personal safety than men.
* Some studies of domestic violence assess both physical and verbal abuse. That inflates and distorts the picture of physical violence.

[Source: MA Straus: The controversy over domestic violence by women: A methodological, theoretical, and sociology of science analysis. In XB Arriaga and S Oskamp: Violence in intimate relationships. Sage Publishers, 1999.]



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Old 06-18-2005, 10:30 PM   #2 (permalink)
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#3. I think is probibly the key.

If the situations were reversed I've probibly been "abused" at one time or another by girls that I've dated. Hell even my wife used to come out of no-where to belt me (arm\leg, stomach one time) once in a while. It stopped abrubtly after I popped her back one time. Funny thing is I never really thought anything about someone cranking me...but was seriously nervious about going to jail when I bruised my wifes shoulder.
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Old 06-19-2005, 09:13 AM   #3 (permalink)
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Funny thing is I never really thought anything about someone cranking me...but was seriously nervious about going to jail when I bruised my wifes shoulder.
I've never been physically "abused" in my adult life by a spouse or significant other and the notion seems kind of unlikely, at least for me. I can only envision a stronger person picking on a weaker person and I've been 6'3" and close to 200 lbs since I was in HS. I've never dated or been married to anyone bigger than me. I guess I can see a wife taking a shot at her spouse even if he is bigger, I just haven't experienced and it seems like a pretty stupid move. In terms of emotional/verbal abuse, I can hold my own in mouth karate pretty well and, if it got too bad, I'd just leave anyway.

Although I wouldn't condone abusive behavior, I think we have become a little too quick to label this kind of stuff in our society although I know it does exist. Growing up, my mother (single parent) had a serious anger problem and I remember many black eyes and bloody noses... they would have been investigated in today's culture. This stopped when I got big enough and mature enough to just not put up with it anymore. By the way, I remember the day that I let all that past go, for MY sake, and it hasn't been an "issue" for us in my adult years. Forgiven, but not forgotten.

So, yes, I know abuse does happen, it's not right but I have a hard time understanding why it persists in "relationships." There comes a time when one has to decide to put an end to it just out of self respect and leave if that's the only means of stopping it. I'm sure it's more complicated than I'm giving it credit for but the solutions are not... it's just implementing them.
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So, yes, I know abuse does happen, it's not right but I have a hard time understanding why it persists in "relationships." There comes a time when one has to decide to put an end to it just out of self respect and leave if that's the only means of stopping it. I'm sure it's more complicated than I'm giving it credit for but the solutions are not... it's just implementing them.
You are right...implementing is the hardest part. I have never been in an abusive relationship, but have known others that have been. A lot of times they feel they deserve to be in such a relationship. They don't have the self esteem to think that they could actually find anyone better than the person that is abusing them. Self esteem is tricky..I think so many people have issues of some sort with it. I did with my body for years...still do to some degree but not like I did. Other people have it with self-worth. I believe those are the ones that find it so hard to leave an abusive relationship.
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