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Originally Posted by Lost Dog
I don't see what a career and degree has to do with married or not, but if you and your fiance feel the same way, then why rush it?
Are you or he feeling pressure from somewhere?
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The only reason I mentioned a degree and a good job is because I really want a nice, big wedding and with the size of my family and his it will cost us about $25,000 for a good wedding. I just wanted to graduate and pay off my college loans ( plus I have many medical bills on top of the every day bills and expenses) and maybe even my car before I spent all this money on our wedding and honeymoon. Maybe my goals are unrealistic? lol but you can always hope!
I do feel pressured now and then only because today, women are always expected to jump into planning and setting the date right after the engagement. I just can't seem to get though to people and make them understand that I am not in a hurry and just want to take some time...why not? If he really loves me, he will wait for as long as he has to right?
p.s. Bytsi, Congrats on your recent anniversary, sounds like you have a nice family
