It seems to me that these days soo many people are getting married so soon after being together for a fairly short amount of time (atleast what I personally consider short...1 year doesn't quite cut it in my mind) My fiance and I have been together for a little over 5 years and got engaged in December of 2008 (we are both in our 20's) Now, I am not one of those girls who immediately went crazy with planning as if I was on a deadline or something. I am still taking it slow and plan on setting the wedding date for May 2010...but nothing has been confirmed/ordered yet. Is it just me or what? I honestly don't see the rush...because it already feels like we're married. Is it wrong to want to still enjoy life and not rush into marriage? I sometimes feel like we're going to have one of those long...5 year engagements or something before we finally tie the knot. Many of my friends got married young, my best friend got married at 19 and had her fist child at 22. Don't get me wrong, I want a family soo bad one day..but I would rather make sure I have an established career, degree and have some fun if you know what I mean, before I settle down
Any input would be appreciated! Just want to hear other's p.o.v!