Welcome! You are in a good place, surrounded by a lot of very smart, very kind, very supportive people.
I empathize with your 4th grade experience. When I was little, my mom was dying, and my dad medicated me with donuts. I don't blame him, but I do wonder what the hell he was thinking... and I suffered for years because of my poor eating habits (among other reasons). Like you, a few of the perpetrators eventually apologized. I try to not to hate them all the time.
What is your plan?
PS. My mom was from Canandaigua.
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