Kelly, I suspect you have some hormonal stuff going on as well. A lot of docs simply don't know how to identify and treat perimenopause hormonal imbalances. I've been doing a lot of research myself after a similar experience to yours.
I read this article summary recently that was kind of interesting. I can't remember who suggested it. It was probably someone in this forum for all I know.
The Bodyfat Blueprint
Regional Body Fat Storage and the Hormonal Implications Thereof
Part I: Practical Applications
by Marc McDougal
http://www.precisionnutrition.com/me...ead.php?t=2810