You know.... This is interesting. I am SO not a word person. I never knew all those words were associated with Vanity.
For me it is in the intent more than the word. That is why I get in trouble all the time on these forums.
Can't wait to see what you gals come up with. For me... I am embracing my goals of looking HAWT and don't give a damn what people think about that. If it is vanity to their eyes so be it. I have worked hard to get to this place and will work harder still to get to the next level... Whatever that is.
And I hear ya on the surgery thing. Even more than leaving scare tissue is just the fact that I hate hospitals or feeling like shit or going under the knife. It is super hard for me to do that in any case let alone for this one. I am going to work on my acceptance for some time first.