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Originally Posted by CEFitness
Ok, this is hard for me to talk about...lol. I have a certain client that is gay, which i don't mind at all. I have trained many gay people in the past and in fact my all time favorite client happened to be gay. A great guy, never made me feel uncomfortable.
So on to the problem. This new client is a very forward gay man. I actually have no problem with a man telling me im good looking or whatever, I am very secure with my sexuality, but this guy is taking it too far. I'm a nice guy but he is taking it to the point that even I am strained.
I've told him I have a girlfriend, Ive told him im not gay. Nothing seems to work. He thinks I'm magically going to start liking penis. I figure if it hasnt happened in 29 years it ain't happenin'.
Anyway the guy is always in boxers when i go to his house. He makes it a point to have a button undone on them which is absolutely disgusting. He talks about how good looking I am constantly. He is touchy feely but not terribly so or I would punch him in the face. Also he is a terrible client. He is basically paying me so he can have a young guy in his house i guess. I mean we don't get through half the exercises, he gabs constantly. So his results are sure to be sub par.
So any of you guys had an experience such as this? I mean I'm just starting my business, and I need money but not this bad! He bought 9 sessions, he has used 4 of them. Im trying my best to make it through these sessions so I can keep the money which I need for rent and bills since im just starting out. After they are through I am probably going to write him a letter stating that our "business relationship" isnt working out.
Comments? Take it easy on me it wasnt easy to tell this story...lol.
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Just do what I did when I was a trainer - prescreen clients to make sure they are strictly women who you have an uncontrollable sexual attraction to. The is something JP taught me, and for that I have been forever grateful.