Sounds like kismet, karma, predestination....whatever you want to call it. Sometimes you gotta think that what was meant to be was meant to be. I think it is your attitude that determines if it is viewed as a positive or negative. I remember reading an article that stated that those who have a deep abiding faith in a higher entity (God, for most of us), whether they were religious or not in a formal sense, had a more positive outlook and would put a more positive 'spin' when trying events happened to them. Some call that perspective. Whatever it is called, a positive attitude will certainly enable you to be more constructive and enthusiastic about tackling the trying event head on. Even non-religious here-and-now types of personalities can recognize that.
So I think I am agreeing with you Fish. [img]smile.gif[/img]
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