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Originally Posted by RedWifey
The reason the discussion between you and Aoife continued was because SHE didn't take your insults (i.e. your bait).
Can you own that you (and your friend cyco) said those insulting things to her? Whether or not you feel attacked doesn't change whether your not you did some attacking of your own. You are an adult and mature adults own their poor behavoir, so can you own that you attacked Aoife?
This is a behavior pattern that you have been called on before, at some point you won't be able to ignore any longer and you'll have to change. IMO, sooner would be better than later.
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Hmm.
I see what you're saying. I know it's not all about me or anything, nor am I trying to undermine your message. But…
I think some people see a finer line than others, or a different line. And some people don't see the need for overwhelming diplomacy.
I won't speak to anyone else, but for me, I've read enough of Matt's posts (damn, dude, I hope I'm right that your name is Matt, lol) to know where his line is, and I can't say I felt attacked.
(Same with cyco.)