OK, I'm going to give this a go.
Mon, you seem to be not quite grasping that the chilly reception you're receiving here might be due to the fact that you aren't getting it. You ask questions that no one here can answer--NO ONE knows what will work for you, specifically. There is no magic formula, no winning recipe, no one answer that fits all people.
If you think a+b=c, and you think variable "a" has screwed up what you WANTED c to be, then try and change it! I can't provide you any more specific detail other than that. YOU need to experiment with modification of your own, personal variables. See what works and what doesn't. Why would you think that anyone here would be able to provide you with a shortcut around that?
If it were possible to just do something in a cookbook fashion, we would all be strong like oxen, six packed, able to vertically jump 10 feet, and sprint like our pants were on fire. It just doesn't work that way.
Best of luck. You need to figure this out. No one here can (or will) be able to do this for you.
Tina
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