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Originally Posted by realcdn
Where will you be in six months if you don't do the program?
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I agree.
When I turned 30 several years ago, I had this slight sense of relief that I'd now be grown up a little and stop flitting around as I was prone to do in different areas of my life in my 20s (work, relationships, homes, activities).
Now I'm getting better at accepting the reality that the desire to flit about needs to be consistently recognized and challenged. By removing the "urgency" factor, I leave room for patience. I accept the reality that I don't actually know how all this will turn out in the end, but I know exactly what will happen if I flit about and not complete the stages.
If you do what you've always done, you'll get what you've always gotten.