Noone is normal. People just pretend at it. People act on the outside the way they think they should and society tells them to. There is no such thing as normal. There's just being yourself or not.
Lazy is cured by just getting up and doing whatever needs to be done. The more you tell yourself you're lazy, the more you believe you're lazy, and the lazier you are. Just do. Not "motivated"? Too bad. Do. Just get up, walk out the door, and do what needs to be done. Life isn't lived, nothing is accomplished, while you sit on you ass. That goes for everything. Anything you want to do has to actually have you DOING it.
Do what you can do to get the help and information you need. It's your responsibility to take care of yourself. If you don't receive help or money or support or whatever from your parents, oh well. Do what you can do to help yourself. At 21, unless you're lucky enough to have parents with enough cash and time and energy to devote to you, you're on your own. Whether or not you live with them. So regardless of what you think their reasoning for not doing what you want them to do to help you is, the point is that they're not and you need to take care of yourself.
So go and grab your life. If you think something is holding you back, do what you can to fix it. In the end, the only thing that holds us back are our own selves... our fears, our doubts, our negativity, our laziness... great feats are not accomplished by those that sit on their ass and complain that people aren't doing shit for them.
(I'm not trying to be mean or sound nasty... I'm simply saying that you DO have the power to change your own life... so take control and live it.)
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