Ok, i do stretch the ITB but i just found a better one

. The discomfort in my glute is near the top and my lower back its only like 3-4 fingers up above that, right on top of my hip bone i guess it is.
Side note: Is it just me but i keep getting kicked out of the forum and have to log in again?
Doing some reading - i've had some discomfort in my hip flexor too the last few mths or so, i think it was due to all the agressive stetching.
Its the band area in this picture just below the white.
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