I think I get what you’re saying, though. People will say “You’re so lucky” or “You’re so committed” or “You have great willpower” in that fawning manner that implies you’re somehow putting superhuman effort into fitness, or you’re somehow special -- therefore THEY can’t possibly do the same thing.
I don’t think it’s anything special. It’s just that some people are able to consistently put in the effort. It’s not superhuman skill and I CERTAINLY don’t deserve to be put on a pedestal. Granted, it can be tough going sometimes – I love cookies and ice cream as much as anyone possibly can! – but it’s not out of reach for anyone to change their eating and exercise habits for the better.
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The trick is in what one emphasizes. We either make ourselves miserable, or we make ourselves happy. The amount of work is the same. -- Carlos Castaneda
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