Recently I met a rather well-off businessman. Wife, three kids, bank account likely in the millions. His handshake was a nice, warm, limp towel. I felt similarly to how you did with the kid. I thought to myself, "Yes, I know I'm not important like your business clients, but I just lost a lot of respect for you... and here you are asking my help on the bench press."
I agree, John. My cousin is a prime example of always "being there". Always a firm shake, a look in the eyes, a present and active mind. I should emulate him more than I do. His presence is felt and his life is full. I have too many 'stray' moments.
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