Social used to be an issue for me. But, now I go and just don't eat the food or drink the booze. I went to three Christmas parties. One of them I did drink and eat some party food, but at the others, I ate immediately before I went in (cooler in car). Inside, I had Diet Pepsi and a lot of it.
Several "new" people commented on my not eating the crap, but the
"old" people pointed out that it was my willpower that kept me slim.
My friends never pressured me, but they used to feel awkward to party while I wasn't joining in on the food and drink. They seem good now, because I made it a point to join them for certain events and have a good time, manage my food and drink, and not be a downer.
People are not used to being around people who like that (you or me). Give them time. At the end of the party, you will be amazed at how great you feel about your accomplishment and the next party will be that much easier.
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